About us

Sam and James signing wedding register

We are James and Sam Hayden-Harler, a unique husband and husband wedding planning team based in Kent

We met on 24th July 2013 and after chatting we soon realised we shared a mutual love of theatre and with James being a Stage Manager, we are a perfect match! From getting to know each other we realised we both had a passion for travel, we have already travelled to destinations including Dubai, Mauritius, Egypt, Cape Verde, Antigua and we are soon to visit Kenya for a safari, as well as nipping over to Zanzibar!

James proposed to Sam on 25th July 2015 in the beautiful surroundings of a Secret Garden within a Country House Hotel in Ashdown Forest, Sussex. This made the most romantic and beautiful setting for a proposal, so Sam couldn’t say no!

James is a Stage Manager and has worked on many West End Productions, so has natural time management and organisational skills. Sam has experience of events and is also very creative, this has made wedding planning an absolute joy! Ever Ever After was set up to offer high quality wedding planning services to Brides and Grooms who want to work with a unique wedding planning team. We pride ourself on the intricate, sometimes forgotten details a wedding offers and we would love to help you create many special memories.